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A MOTHER'S PAIN

Posted by Marletta to South Dakota Prisoners Support Group

By Hazel Bonner

Some stories are harder to write than others. I do stories primarily about issues involving jails and prisons, police abuse, court and other areas involving social injustice. I continue to be saddened and frustrated by much of what I write about. Nothing much surprises me any more. Many of my stories are difficult to write, because the subjects, and the depth of man's inhumanity to man are difficult to fathom.

Sometimes, however, stories touch so deeply that they are much more difficult to write. Those are the stories that I connect with on a personal level. I connect with them so closely because I know either, "there but for the grace of God, go I" or I have "been there, done that."

One such story is one I did last fall. It is one of those grace of God stories. It is the story about the suicide death of Billy Turney in the Martin jail. The connection is with the mother¡¦s pain. I knew neither Turney nor his mother, Twylla, before that week. I connected with the pain without knowing them. I'm glad I took the time to get to know them.

You see, I never want to receive the call that Twylla Turney received that Wednesday night. The call telling her that her son is dead at his own hands while in the custody of the government. My son is in federal prison. He is just a few months younger than William Turney is. He has been in the custody of the state or federal government for much of the past 12 years. He, like Bill Turney, is a good, gentle, caring person, who has never killed or even seriously injured anyone.

She talked to her son the Monday before his death from the Pennington County Jail. He told her his attorney had told him he was facing life in prison and that he had attempted suicide here. He said it took eight people to prevent it. She didn't even know when he was being brought back to Bennett County. Had she known, she would have been there when he arrived. Had she known, he might not have taken that last desperate act to escape imprisonment.

I know the depth of man's inhumanity to man because of the experiences of my son and many others in our prisons and jails. When they dehumanize a person the way our cages for humans do, it makes life seem not worth the living. When they demonize boys and girls, men and women, the way our system does, and somehow think they and society are supposed to be better for it, they delude themselves. The community of Wamblee on the Pine Ridge Reservation buried William Turney, one of its own, the Saturday following his death. And what a farewell it was. As I listened to the sobs of mother and sisters and others close to him, I knew, that that mother could be me.

As I stood by that grave that friends and family had dug as they lowered his casket into his final resting-place and covered it with dirt, I thought how different that funeral procession had been from those in the white world in which I live.

It had not been the trip on paved roads following a sterile hearse to a beautifully groomed cemetery, where the funeral home prepares the site, lowers the casket by machine and covers the grave.

It had been a trip following a pickup, which bore the casket with the pallbearers lining each side of the pickup box. It was a trip across a field to a little cluster of trees on a knoll. There was no road at all, only a trail embedded by taking of others on that same journey.

I listened to mother, family and friends tell me about the Billy they knew. He had been friendly and helpful and a good person. I thought that white society had lost, because they had not allowed him to be the person he really was.

Marletta Pacheco and I had driven down to Wamblee Friday evening, planning on spending a couple of hours sharing the grief of the family, because a burden shared is lighter for those bearing it. We stayed with the family for four hours and then were taken to Vernon Moves Camp's residence in Hisle to rest while they went back to the all night wake.

For Marletta, that journey was a "been there, done that" connection. She received that call last spring. A loved one, Leighton Rich, had died at his own hands at the South Dakota State Prison.

Marletta and I decided to leave early the next morning to go back to Wamblee to be with the family. Anyone who knows the trip from Hisle to Wamblee (12 miles) knows that it is impossible to get lost. And we didn't get lost, we just turned the wrong direction and ended up in Martin at about 8:00 a.m. We both thought we had turned the right direction. Had I been driving I would have turned that way. I even mused that the trip seemed longer in the daylight. It was.

We looked for a restaurant where we could have some breakfast before going back the 36 miles to Wanblee. We ended up at the Amoco Food Shop. I took my billfold out of my purse to pay for snacks and when we left there I forgot my purse. I carry a purse that doubles as a brief case. You know the kind.

I discovered it about 10 miles back toward Hisle. We went back to Martin with me wondering if they would think that I would surely be back for it and just set it aside, or if they would try to identify who I was by looking in it.

I prayed they would make the first choice because if they looked inside they would have found all my notes and copies of newspaper articles I had written about civil rights violations in Martin and Bennett County. They would have found a story with Vernon Moves Camp's picture telling about him taking the complaints to meet with the FBI. Now I'm sure I can safely say that Moves Camp is not one of Bennett County's favorite persons. Had they looked inside they may have turned it over to Sheriff Waterbury as lost property. His name is in those stories several times.

I walked back into that store and was greeted with "We knew you would be back, it's right there." On the trip back I remembered that not just my notes for a number of stories, but also disk holders containing four computer disks were in that purse. I had stuck them in a side pocket of my purse on Friday and taken them to be copied at Office Max so I could send some copies off. They contained several years worth of sociological projects I had done in the college classes I teach. The people in that food shop never understood how much they could have hurt me by saying they never saw the purse.

Marletta and I arrived back at the site of the funeral about 15 minutes before the start time. A half hour trip had been turned into two and a half. We agreed that if she wouldn't tell, I wouldn't tell. But here I am, telling about getting lost going from Hisle to Wamblee on the Pine Ridge Reservation to the whole world. Sorry, Marletta.

Since the time of Bill Turney's death in the Martin Jail, I have become friends with Twyla Turney. I only know Bill from the loving memories of his family and friends. She is a beautiful lady, and knows that her son was a beautiful young man. That memory alone, not the labels placed on him by white society, is what she clings to.

She has retained an attorney who will likely file suit against Bennett, Pennington and Jackson Counties, for what happened to her son. I have attended civil rights hearings in Bennett County hosted by Vernon Moves Camp and by Oglala Lakota College. I attended a meeting with the FBI in Rapid City with Moves Camp, during which he presented complaints from Bennet County including the treatment of Bill Turney. Vernon moves camp was arrested attempting to enter the Legion Hall in Martin for one of those hearings, for violation of a parole which he believes should have expired. I've done the figures and based on the old good time law, I believe he is correct.

Bill Turney's paperwork turned over to his mother in a large manila envelope from his court appointed attorney, spoke from the grave about conditions in the Bennett County Jail. Bill Turney suffered as others continue to suffer there. He questioned Russ Waterbury following the suicide attempt of a woman at the jail as to how much training his staff has and whether they are trained to monitor persons threatening suicide. Apparently not.

Twylla Turney wants to establish a fund if she gets any cash from the suit. She wants the money to go to help others, men and women, who face the pain of our criminal injustice system. She also wants to force Pennington, Bennett and Jackson Counties to change policies that led her son to be in jail in the first place, that led Pennington County to send him back to Martin after a serious suicide attempt here, and that led to Waterbury leaving the jail that night with orders to staff not go near Bill Turney. When staff saw him tie a sheet around his neck and jump off the top bunk, they followed orders rather than go to his aid. I remember that the staff in Nazi Prison Camps denied any culpability because they were just following orders.

More than anything else, Bill Turney did not want to spend the rest of his life in prison, as his court appointed attorney here had treatened might be the result of another conviction. His death was a second escape from the Bennett County Jail and an escape from the criminal injustice system in this state. Twylla Turney also hopes to change conditions in our prisons and jails so that other young men and women won't take the last desperate step to escape incarceration.

Hazel Bonner is a free lance writer who writes from her home. Comments on this column may be sent electronically to hbonpidge1@hotmail.com. You may write her with comments at PO Box 3712, Rapid City, SD 57709-3712.



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